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Frank on Money's avatar

The obsolescence test is really useful, especially infrastructure versus decoration.

What makes this hard for people isn't the framework. It's truthfully asking: "whose approval are you purchasing?" and thinking long and hard enough to answer honestly.

Most people already know what truly matters. They just need permission to act like it.

Musings of a Retired Guy's avatar

When you say, “The hard part isn’t knowing; it’s being honest with ourselves and acting accordingly,” those words really stuck with me.

This may sound strange, but for me to spend a lot of money, it takes a lot of effort to be honest with myself—and even more effort to act accordingly. Those are two big hurdles. That said, in some cases I can get there and spend the money. In other cases, it becomes a vicious circle of overanalysis.

In the situations where I have spent a lot of money, I rarely regret it. So the process works. I just need to trust the process more consistently.

In some ways I’m happy it takes me so long to decide on spending. It makes me feel like I’ve done the hard work necessary to earn the reward. That mindset lowers the chances of regret.

Final thought: I wonder if people struggle more with the honest part or the action part.

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